QUID PRO QUIS – 16Mar2015

by admin on March 16, 2015

 THE END OF LIFE – As You Now Know It

 OK, in this issue I’m going to stretch some of you a bit – well, actually a lot!  I’ll be covering a lot of territory really fast.  So hold on tight.

Last year I produced a video that I called The End of Dentistry (you can see it here at EndOfDentistry.com).   In it I briefly described why I believe that we are on the verge of a major economic correction (read worldwide depression) that will absolutely rock your world.  The video was addressed to dentists, but the realities I talked about – the cancer of greed, the resulting collapse of the economy, and the need to position yourself to survive and thrive – are all equally applicable to anyone.

I could write a whole book on why people are predicting that your life as you now know it will soon go up in smoke, but I’m not going to.  Others have done a much better job of that than I could (Want more details?  Here’s a short reading list that I guarantee will get your attention: The Death of Money by James Rickards, At the Crest of the Tidal Wave by Robert Preacher, The Great Depression Ahead by Harry Dent, and The Great Reckoning by Davidson and Rees-Mogg).

Right or wrong, what we are left with is the big question – SO WHAT? If they are right, what should you be doing to prepare?  What, if anything, can we as individuals do to change the seemingly inevitable?

For a rather “cheeky” perspective on how to best change the world, you might want to take a look Russell Brand’s book Revolution.  Although I certainly don’t agree with all of his conclusions, he does a surprisingly astute job of making a couple of very important points; 1) corporate and consumer greed are tearing this planet apart, and 2) lasting revolutionary change will never come from an oligarchy (political, clerical, or commercial) but rather will only be successful as a peaceful grass-roots individual and local movement.

Although Brand would doubtfully be comfortable with my choice of words (nor I with his!), once we got past the semantics I think he would agree that the systemic problem driving this impending collapse stems from the fact that big business has hijacked capitalism, big government has hijacked democracy, and big religion has hijacked spirituality.  This is nothing new; society has been through it many times before.  The kicker though is that none of it could ever have happened without the our own individual and collective consent, and the only way to get it all back is for us to individually and collectively revolt and refuse to participate in the sham.

So the next question is WHY?  Why would we allow ourselves to be so taken advantage of?  Why are we so easily manipulated?

The answer is at once extremely complex and elegantly simple.  It would take a whole book, a series of books actually, to thoroughly cover all of the ramifications of those questions.  I’ve found though that most, if not all, discussions and arguments can and will go on ad infinitum unless dissected and reduced to their core paradigms.  Like the layers of an onion, personal and societal actions and reactions all revolve around a core set of beliefs that drive our daily lives.  And the only way to reach consensus and affect change is to examine those basic assumptions.

So let’s take a quick look at two core paradigms that are key to driving the wrong headed destructive direction we are going.

SCARCITY (vs. ABUNDANCE)

Google “abundance” and you’ll find a plethora of material on the subject.  Ask your friends, and most will claim to believe in abundance.  If you believe in an almighty God who “owns the cattle on a thousand hills”, you believe in abundance.  Yet most of us act like we live in a state of scarcity.  We horde more than we share.  We vote to redistribute wealth rather than to maximize opportunity.  We compete instead of collaborating.  We define “fair share” by what our neighbors have rather than by the value we contribute.

Contrary to so called progressive ideology, it is not religion that drives most wars, but rather its use as a cover for a fundamental belief in scarcity – lack of territory, lack of resources, lack of opportunity.  Likewise, capitalism cannot be blamed for the environmental and economic chaos inflicted when consumers and voters choose “cheap” and “free” over sustainability and opportunity.

COERCION (vs. CHOICE)

A couple of paragraphs earlier, I stated that it was only through our individual and collective assent that greed gains power.  Scott Peck called laziness the original sin, and we will continue to suffer the consequences of our “sins” until we awaken from our easy, cheap, and “fair” stupor and quit blaming corporations, governments, or creeds for our lack of prosperity ; until we choose to acknowledge that we are not victims, that our personal prosperity is the result of our own personal choices.

No one forces you to give your money to WalMart instead of Mac and Mary’s Grocery.  You do that because saving five buck today is more important to you than having more choices, including healthy sustainable produce, tomorrow.

No one forces you to stick with a minimum wage job.  You’re there because it’s easier to blame your employer and hang with your buds, to “follow your passion”, than to invest your weekends and evenings in becoming a more valuable person with the money to legitimately support your passion.

No one forces you to vote for career politicians who thrive off of making promises they can’t keep, who would rather point fingers than make hard choices.  You do that for the same reasons you shop at WalMart and don’t have a decent job – you would rather blame someone else than take responsibility for your choices.

Ok, I apologize for pointing my finger at “you”.  I know that none of you reading this are guilty of that kind of lazy greed.  Not, that is, unless you’re like me – human!  The main reason I can speak with such confident authority is because I’m so well acquainted with laziness and greed.  That’s why meaningful change will require nothing short of a revolution.

So now that we’ve explored the WHY , let’s return to our original question – WHAT?  What should you be doing to prepare for the coming chaos?  Buy gold and silver?  Build a bunker?  Horde survival supplies and the weapons to defend them?  If scarcity is your operating paradigm, then yes.  But if on the other hand you want to operate from an abundance mentality, then what should you be doing?

Here is my list of the three things anyone who not only wants to survive but thrive in any kind of economy must do.

 THREE STEPS TO MEANINGFUL REVOLUTION

How to Survive and Thrive in Any Economy

     1.  Live within your means –

If and when the economy collapses around us, the masses are going to be led to blame the “rich and greedy capitalists”.  But that will all be a red herring concocted by the entrenched oligarchies, just the same as Nazis blaming the Jews.  And the first step in breaking free of their strangle hold is to get out of debt and live within your means.  Out of control consumerism, not capitalism, is the vortex sucking the life out of the economy.  So learn to just say no!  Become a contrarian, and quit judging “fair” and what you “deserve” by what your neighbors have hocked themselves to get.  And the best step-by-step guide to getting this done is Dave Ramsey’s book The Total Money Makeover.  Get it.  Read it.  And make it happen!

     2.  Start a business and invest –

There are really only four ways to earn money – get a job, make your own job and be self-employed, own a business that can operate without your constant involvement, or invest your money in cash producing assets.  These four cash flow vehicles make up what I like to call the Cross of Income.

A thorough discussion of the pros and cons of each vehicle is beyond the scope of this article.  In brief though, the first two (which make up the horizontal axis of the Cross of Income) are the quickest but least reliable with the least potential for growth.  The last two (the vertical axis of the Cross of Income) take longer and involve more short-term risk, but provide infinitely more long-term stability and growth potential.  To learn more I suggest you read Robert Kiyosaki’s book the CASHFLOW Quadrant (his term for the Cross of Income).  In it he suggests that anyone wanting to move toward economic freedom start with building a business.  It is possible to move straight into the investor sector from the job or self-employment sectors, but the best investments usually require the knowledge and experience of a successful entrepreneur to ensure profitability.

And lest anyone think that business ownership is unrealistic, let me quickly point out Kiyosaki’s  take on that as well.  In his same book he outlines 3 basic business models that are available to choose from.

i.      Corporation – this usually requires 12-15 years of corporate executive employment experience to gain sufficient knowledge and                                experience.
ii.      Franchise – allows one to take advantage of someone else’s experience, but will usually require $750,000 to $1,000,000 to acquire a                    proven franchise.
iii.      Micro-franchise – will usually require a part-time investment of 2-5 years to become profitable, but is relatively inexpensive and open to              anyone with a good and teachable work ethic.

With these 3 models to choose from, there is a viable business opportunity available to anyone who is serious about taking control of their own economic future.

     3.  Become a social entrepreneur –

Everyone admires a philanthropist, but relatively few philanthropists ever really experience the success and fulfilment that results from acts of true altruism.  That’s because too few philanthropists every really learn to operate from a position of abundance; they’re still stuck in the land of scarcity.  For if they truly believed in abundance, they would have been social entrepreneurs with giving as a core value of their entire business, making giving an integral part of their path to prosperity rather than an afterthought.  There’s a world of difference between giving from your excess and giving when it actually costs you something.

Waiting until you’ve “made it” and have “enough” robs the present needy of the help they need now, and robs the giver of the chance to experience the reciprocating Law of Abundance in action.  For it is only by personal experiential knowledge of this law that a person can ever escape the slavery of scarcity.  Besides, “expenses always rise to meet the income” so consequently “enough” rarely comes.

On the other hand, simply throwing money at a problem is too often a lazy response that eases the conscience of the giver and certainly excites the beneficiary, but usually only postpones the inevitable.  We all know that it’s better to “teach a man to fish”, but how often are we willing to invest the time as well as money required to become informed and intelligent philanthropists and really make a lasting difference?  And nowhere is this more true than in the arena of coerced philanthropy.  Income redistribution in any of its involuntary forms is the go-to tool of the impatient and unimaginative, but never results in any more then stunting the initiative of both the purloined and the recipient.

This is why we believe that social entrepreneurship is the key to the revolution that will save the economy, both at home and in your community – from sea to shining sea.

 

Your life as you now know it is going to change.  Will it be for the better or for the worse?  The choice is yours.

THE BUTTERFLY EFFECT

It’s always been a mystery to me, how someone not long for this world could care so much about it. Even now — his voice almost gone — Chris Rosati still has a lot to say about how to make the world a better place. We’ve been following his journey as he lives with ALS. We’ve watched him give away donuts and honor kids for their random acts of kindness. His latest revelation is about the butterfly effect.

The butterfly effect is this idea that a single butterfly flapping its wings on one side of the globe can, in theory, start a hurricane on the other. It’s a physics concept, but Rosati wondered if it could be applied to kindness as well.

“An act of kindness, how far could it go?” he wondered.

A few months ago he decided to test the theory at a diner in his hometown of Durham, North Carolina. He saw two girls at the table next to his and gave them each $50 with one very simple instruction — do something kind.

Rosati says he left the diner and forgot all about it until he got an email. It included pictures from a village in Africa with people holding signs that read, “Thanks a lot for spreading kindness — Chris Rosati.”

“It was the butterfly effect,” said Rosati.

The two girls responsible were 13-year-old Kate Cameron and her 10-year-old sister Anna. They say they couldn’t believe it when a stranger gave them each $50 dollars.

“That makes you want to do something good with that money,” said Anna.

The girls say they already knew about this village in Sierra Leone where their dad had worked in the Peace Corps. They knew the people there had been working hard to fight Ebola, so the girls paid for a feast to help them celebrate being Ebola-free. They say it felt great to help.

“It inspired me,” said Anna.  “I would definitely encourage other people to do it,” added Kate.

I asked Rosati what he’ll do now that he’s proven the butterfly effect.  “Oh man,” he said. “You get a whole lot of butterflies to flap their wings.”

To that end, Rosati, who’s already done so much for North Carolina, launched his latest campaign last month. He told screaming fans his plan to give out hundreds of little butterfly grants — $50 each — to any kid who wants to start changing the world.

America, get ready for a hurricane.     Source: CBS News

Editor’s note: Hurricane = Revolution.  Is step 3 above starting to make more sense?

THE OLD TELEPHONE ON THE WALL – HELLO? 

I don’t know who the author of this next piece is.  I received it in a chain e-mail from a good friend of mine.  But it struck a chord in my heart; maybe it will in yours too.

When I was a young boy, my father had one of the first telephones in our neighborhood.  I remember the polished, old case fastened to the wall. The shiny receiver hung on the side of the box.  I was too little to reach the telephone, but used to listen with fascination when my mother talked to it.

Then I discovered that somewhere inside the wonderful device lived an amazing person.  Her name was “Information Please” and there was nothing she did not know.  “Information Please” could supply anyone’s number and the correct time.

My personal experience with the genie-in-a-bottle came one day while my mother was visiting a neighbor.  Amusing myself at the tool bench in the basement, I whacked my finger with a hammer, the pain was terrible, but there seemed no point in crying because there was no one home to give sympathy.

I walked around the house sucking my throbbing finger, finally arriving at the stairway.  The telephone! Quickly, I ran for the footstool in the parlor and dragged it to the landing. Climbing up, I unhooked the receiver and held it to my ear.

“Information Please” I said into the mouthpiece just above my head.  A click or two and a small clear voice spoke into my ear.

“Information.”

“I hurt my finger…” I wailed into the phone, the tears came readily enough
now that I had an audience.

“Isn’t your mother home?” came the question.

“Nobody’s home but me,” I blubbered.

“Are you bleeding?” the voice asked.

“No,” I replied.  “I hit my finger with the hammer and it hurts.”

“Can you open the icebox?” she asked.

I said I could.

“Then chip off a little bit of ice and hold it to your finger,” said the voice.

After that, I called “Information Please” for everything.  I asked her for help with my geography, and she told me where Philadelphia was.  She helped me with my math.

She told me my pet chipmunk that I had caught in the park just the day before, would eat fruit and nuts.  Then, there was the time Petey, our pet canary, died

I called “Information Please”, and told her the sad story.  She listened, and then said things grown-ups say to soothe a child.  But I was not consoled.  I asked her, “Why is it that birds should sing so beautifully and bring joy to all families, only to end up as a heap of feathers on the bottom of a cage?”

She must have sensed my deep concern, for she said quietly, “Wayne, always remember that there are other worlds to sing in.”

Somehow I felt better.

Another day I was on the telephone, “Information Please.”

“Information,” said in the now familiar voice.

“How do I spell fix?”  I asked.

All this took place in a small town in the Pacific Northwest.  When I was nine years old, we moved across the country to Boston.  I missed my friend very much.  “Information Please” belonged in that old wooden box back home and I somehow never thought of trying the shiny new phone that sat on the table in the hall.  As I grew into my teens, the memories of those childhood conversations never really left me.

Often, in moments of doubt and perplexity I would recall the serene sense of security I had then.  I appreciated now how patient, understanding, and kind she was to have spent her time on a little boy.

A few years later, on my way west to college, my plane put down in Seattle.  I had about a half-hour or so between planes.   I spent 15 minutes or so on the phone with my sister, who lived there now.  Then without thinking what I was doing, I dialed my hometown operator and said, “Information Please.”

Miraculously, I heard the small, clear voice I knew so well.

“Information.”

I hadn’t planned this, but I heard myself saying, “Could you please tell me how to spell fix?”

There was a long pause.  Then came the soft spoken answer, “I guess your finger must have healed by now.”

I laughed, “So it’s really you,” I said.  “I wonder if you have any idea how much you meant to me during that time.”

I wonder,” she said, “if you know how much your call meant to me.  I never had any children and I used to look forward to your calls.”

I told her how often I had thought of her over the years and I asked if I could call her again when I came back to visit my sister.

“Please do”, she said.  “Just ask for Sally.”

Three months later I was back in Seattle.  A different voice answered.

“Information.”

I asked for Sally.

“Are you a friend?” she said.

“Yes, a very old friend,” I answered.

“I’m sorry to have to tell you this,” she said.  “Sally had been working part time the last few years because she was sick. She died five weeks ago.”

Before I could hang up, she said, “Wait a minute, did you say your name was Wayne?”

“Yes.” I answered.

“Well, Sally left a message for you.  She wrote it down in case you called.  Let me read it to you.”

The note said, “Tell him there are other worlds to sing in.  He’ll know what I mean.”

I thanked her and hung up. I knew what Sally meant.

Never underestimate the impression you may make on others.

Editor’s note: Impression = Butterfly.  Have you started flapping your wings yet?

OPPORTUNITY

HEART STREET MARKET

This revolutionary online micro-franchise is the perfect business for anyone who wants to build a social enterprise where your prosperity depends on helping others prosper.  With literally thousands of top-of-the-line products, we have partnered with a team of coaches that has the unique distinction of having created more millionaires than any other company in the world other than Microsoft!

With Heart Street Market you will –

  • Work with some of the most successful business men and women on the planet.
  • Have a literally unlimited growth potential.
  • Create a secure retirement income that equals or surpasses your working income that you can also pass on to your heirs.
  • Be part of the revolution of abundance that is sweeping around the globe!

If you are looking for a micro-franchise that takes full advantage of the Law of Abundance and the Cross of Prosperity, give us a call at 844-263-9015 ext 6 or e-mail Lon@heartstreetmarket.org .

ELITE DOCS ONLINE –for dentists

 There is no better way to distinguish your practice as the regional practice of choice than through intelligent social entrepreneurship and cause marketing.  With Elite Docs Online you will –

  • Plan and strategize with a dentist – not some so called expert who’s never held a handpiece or struggled with managing a practice.
  • Become the most well-known and respected dentist in your community.
  • Experience the unprecedented staff and patient loyalty that comes with aligning yourself with a great cause.
  • Have the added satisfaction of knowing that you are partnering with a firm that is itself a social enterprise.

If you are ready to grow your practice, to position it to thrive no matter what the economy brings, and to do so in a way that harmonizes with the Law of Abundance, give us a call now – 844-263-9015 ext. 5, or e-mail Lon@elitedocsonline.com .  Together we can revolutionize your practice!

 

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October 21, 2014

by admin on October 21, 2014

BUSINESS BASICS – Seven Golden Rules for Hyper Business Growth

By MaryEllen Tribby

Are you maximizing your time to the fullest? Do you accomplish the majority of your goals, projects and tasks each day?

Most people don’t. If you are one of them or know someone who is, keep reading because my seven golden rules will rock your world! Just like they have for so many.

You see the reason most entrepreneurs and work at home moms and working moms fail is because they focus on the wrong tasks, usually tasks that don’t yield revenue. It is human nature to work on tasks that you can easily accomplish.

These are generally the tasks that you don’t feel overwhelmed by or fear. But by no means does that mean they are automatically important to your business.

In order to get your business and or career soaring to the next level you need to break out of your comfort zone and take on new challenges that will bring you more revenue. This also means discipline and getting into habits.

By following just a few simple rules you will notice a big change in your effectiveness, which can increase profitability in your business.

Seven Golden Rules for Hyper Business Growth

1.    Your business day starts the night before. Each evening I plan my next day’s business activities. I write out a good old-fashioned “to do” list. I do not put my list on my computer or phone. I use a note pad. I list everything I think I need to accomplish the next day. After I have done a complete “brain dump,” I prioritize each item. Not only am I ready to go the next morning, but I also sleep a whole lot better at night.

As my day progresses, I cross off my completed tasks as well as write down any that may have come up unexpectedly that I needed to address. This way I have a full record of how my time was spent.

2.    Set an alarm clock. Many entrepreneurs and work-at-homers think because it’s “my” business they don’t need a schedule – that they can do whatever they want. Wrong. I have seen this over and over. I hear complaints from people that their business is not where they want it to be. I ask a basic question like “What time do you set your alarm?” and I hear, “I don’t use an alarm clock. I just get up when I wake up.” This is counter-productive. You need to take control of your day from the start.

3.    Never work in your pajamas. Your mindset is one of the most important factors in determining your success. You need to respect yourself, your customers and your business enough to dress appropriately.  By doing so you will notice that you are more confident and assertive therefore getting more done in the same amount of hours.

4.    Do not schedule meetings or take phone calls before noon. You are at your best first thing in the morning. Get your important tasks done first. Scheduling meetings and conference calls in the morning is counter-productive. Interruptions are the biggest factor in not completing tasks. Let your employees, colleagues and friends know that you will speak with them in the afternoon if need be.

5.    Take a mid-day exercise break. A study by Jim McKenna from the University of Bristol showed that exercise during the workday improves job performance.  Participants returned to work more tolerant of themselves and their performance is also consistently higher, as shown by better time management and improved mental sharpness.

I like to take a 30-minute bike ride or speed walk around my neighborhood in the afternoon (I do my hard core work out first thing in the morning). By this time my important tasks for the day are usually complete. I let my mind wonder and this is where ideas hit me – ideas for content or marketing or new joint ventures deals. This is one of my favorite times of the day.

6.    Have lunch with a mentor, colleague or protégé once a week. We can all get caught up in our own little world. We are so busy with our families and careers. But by having a lunch with someone smart and energetic you will be exposed to new ideas and different viewpoints. Your ideas become stronger making them easier to implement.

This one lunch will make a huge difference in your productivity not only in your business but in your family life as well.

7.    Reconcile your “to do” list. At the end of your workday look at what you had planned to accomplish that day and look at what you actually accomplished. If you accomplished 75% or more on your list, you had a good day. We all have to adjust for emergencies and ad hoc situations whether those emergencies and situations arise in our business or our family life.

However, if you fell below 75%, you need to make some changes because this means you are not in control of your business. Instead your business is in control of you.

When you examine the list above, what should be obvious is that these are very fundamental rules. Rules that everyone can implement in one form or another.

None of these rules require any monetary commitment, but they all call for a mental and emotional commitment.

Start today and in just seven days from now I bet you see a big difference in your productivity.

 

HEALTH WATCH – Tips for a happy Halloween

By Lisa Fuhrman

My kids always look forward to Halloween, even though they don’t eat the candy (at least in front of me). They look forward to dressing up in costumes, being out with their friends, and staying up late on a school night. I, on the other hand, do not look forward to Halloween. I don’t like the focus on promoting fear of ugly-looking creatures and giving toxic items to children. I don’t call the candy “treats” because that gives children the wrong message. Think about it, calling something a “treat” encourages your children to look forward to receiving the “treat”. Do you really want to encourage your children to look forward to eating something that could be as harmful as cigarettes?

With our growing obesity epidemic, the increase in diabetes and strokes in children, and the scientific link between junk food and depression, decreased intellect, criminal behavior, dementia, and cancer, it is time mothers took a stand against the traditional Halloween junk food-fest.

The sad fact is that even normally well-behaved children can start acting crazy after consuming all the highly-sugared, chemicalized junk they get. And the disrupting behavior can last for as long as a month afterward. Yet, I’m not a person who believes in letting eating choices turn my home into a war zone. I believe in providing an education in healthful eating—and setting a good example! I keep unhealthful foods out of the house, and trust my kids to use their best judgment. Thankfully, we have figured out how to make Halloween a happy time for all of us, without joining the candy craze. Here are some tips that have worked for us.

1. Hand out inexpensive toys instead of candy. By setting this good example, perhaps a neighbor will pick up on the idea. Even if nobody follows your lead, you will feel good about your decision. Toys are perhaps a little more expensive than candy, but not much, and they definitely send a great message to both the kids and the parents.

My children help choose what they think is cool. In recent years, we have been giving out glow-in-the-dark necklaces and bracelets. The best thing about these toys is that they make kids safer in the dark because cars can see them when they are walking in the road. Kids say, “Wow!” or “Cool!” when they see the glowing gifts, so I know they love them. Plus, my kids are proud to hand them out. Now that my kids are older, they always remind me when it’s time to place my order. Other toys that we have purchased include blow up balloon balls, glow-in-the-dark animals, and glow-in-the-dark balls.

2. Make your family’s favorite dinner on Halloween night, including their favorite desserts.  With full stomachs, your kids will be less tempted to eat the junk they receive.
3. When the children come home, if they are adamant about wanting to eat the candy, set a limit on how many candies they are allowed to eat. I suggest you allow them two pieces of candy, which they can pick out—and then discard the rest. In the past, we let our children pick one or two candies to eat, but in the more recent years they don’t even want any of it. They are too well informed now. Last Halloween, much to my surprise (I was brought up conventionally, so it’s amazing to watch Nutritarian children grow up) our children played with the candy. They opened the wrappers, and exclaimed how it didn’t look like food and then molded it.

4. Try to get your kids to choose not to eat the candy by making another option more tantalizing.  For instance, give them money or a toy in exchange for their bag of candy.

5. Some people find it easiest to throw out all the candy after the children go to sleep. Little ones probably won’t even remember it once it’s gone, and getting rid of it eliminates temptation for the adults in the house. However, it is better to do this as a family and not secretively so the children understand the reason that it should be destroyed. It would be no different if the neighbors were being neighborly serving cigarettes or addictive drugs. Some socially accepted and popular customs are simply ignorant and dangerous. Dietary ignorance is the number one cause of death in America and everyone needs to know it.

6. Life is full of compromises—and this day will pass! I believe that with a little advance planning you can ensure that your children will have a fun time. Plus they will not be tempted to hide or sneak candy. I am certain you will be happier knowing that they will be eating a lot less candy this year than they did last year.

 

MY TWO CENTS WORTH

I recently saw a “joke” that got me thinking.

It seems that a devote Muslim was riding in a London cab when he abruptly asked the driver to turn off his radio, stating that such music did not exist during the time of the Prophet and was in fact the music of the infidel.  The cabbie’s response was to pullover and ask his passenger to get out.  When asked why, he stated that since cabs didn’t exist during the time of the Prophet either, his passenger should wait on the curb for the next camel.

Now rather than either being appalled on the one hand or rah-rah-ing on the other, my response was a bit more circumspect.  You see, as a Christian, I’ve been guilty of the same tendency to subjugate common sense to out-of-context prophetic interpretations.  As a dentist, I’ve seen the same tendency among my colleagues to rally around a favorite dental guru and lose the ability to objectively consider any new evidence.

It is human nature to mistake dogma for reality, to assume our own perspective is complete.  This is especially true for science and religion.  The vast majority of scientists are so invested in Darwin that they are completely incapable of considering any of the compelling evidence in favor of intelligent design.  Democrats find it impossible to discuss a Republican viewpoint without resorting to characterizations and questioning both the intelligence and the morality of their antagonists; the reverse is equally true.

Today it is fashionable to deny being religious.  However, a more honest position is to admit that we all are religious – even atheists.  We are all products of our raising, education, and experience; we all wear our own colored glasses that influence what we see and what we miss.  And we all have opinions that defy logic.  Think you’re an exception, have you ever caught yourself saying “that’s stupid”, “how dumb”, or “what an idiot”?  If you can’t make your point without using a derogatory characterization, you probably can’t make your point, period.  In other words, the fact that you can’t convincingly articulate it proves that you don’t have a logical reason for your dogmatic belief!

So, assuming one would want to, how would you go about expanding your understanding, clearing up your colored glasses, and start seeing the world a little more accurately?

  1.  Expose yourself to alternate viewpoints – Not that you should immediately abandon what you know to be “true”, but the best and perhaps only way to get another perspective… is to get it!
  2.  “Seek first to understand” – As you are listening, do so with an honest desire to understand the others perspective.  It’s not listening if all you are doing is looking for points of disagreement and/or an opportunity to “correct”.
  3. Look for the context that points to the principle – All too often yesterday’s practical solution becomes today’s irrational dogma.  Learn to view “truth” in light of its historical origin.
  4.  Think multifactorially – Often times the truth is not either/or but rather both/and.
  5.  Accept the limitations of your reason – You can’t see what you don’t know.  And conversely, the more you know the more you will see.
  6. “By their fruits you shall know them” – Reject any viewpoint that does not lead you to greater peace, love, and brotherhood.

Now, go and make it happen!

 

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What’s your passion?

August 29, 2014

 Some days seem like they are just designed to make you think.  A couple weeks ago we were blessed with one of those when our son married the girl of his dreams, giving us of course the daughter-in-law of our dreams!  It was a grand day remembering the past, reveling in the present, and dreaming […]

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FREEDOM: How much are you willing to pay?

July 1, 2014

FREEDOM: How much are you willing to pay? Independence Day is just around the corner – barbeques, family, friends, and fireworks!  I know I’m looking forward to ALL of it, and I’m sure you are too.  But as we celebrate the birth of our nation and the freedom it stands for, I’d like to challenge […]

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Start an Entrepreneurial Revolution

May 16, 2014

It seems like every time I turn on the news, someone is complaining about greedy corporations.  Flip the channel, and the conversation is the same.  Only this time it’s the government getting too greedy, and the guys on the other channel are just “Kool-Aid drinking ignoramuses”.  And both sides, each calling for change but too […]

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What’s Your ONE THING?

May 16, 2014

What is the ONE THING I can do such that by doing it everything else will be easier or unnecessary? In his book, The ONE Thing, Gary Keller calls this the Focusing Question. And answering that question is the key to simplifying and streamlining the hectic life so many entrepreneurs face. Do you find yourself at the […]

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Playing it safe might be the most dangerous thing a leader can do

August 10, 2012

Playing it safe might be the most dangerous thing a leader can do By Dr. Ken Blanchard Today’s leaders are still holding their breath. The global economy has improved in some regions but has yet to turn the corner in others. As a result, many leaders are playing it safe, keeping a tight rein on […]

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Prosperity – Magic or Mystery?

July 9, 2012

Prosperity – Magic or Mystery? By Dr. Lon Peckham A recurring theme among business management consultants is the notion of controlled predictability – “If you will do exactly as I tell you, if you will walk-and-talk like the successful Mr. X, you will have the same success”.  Often called “modeling”, proponents of this theory assure […]

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Leading vs. Bossing

March 28, 2012

William Glasser’s Lead Management by Kim Olver It seems that every decade or so there is some new fad the runs through the business world in terms of supervision and in the world of diversity management, downsizing, outsourcing, generational work conflicts and the information age, things are even more complicated than ever before. No longer […]

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The Problem with Weight Watchers

March 26, 2012

The Problem with Weight Watchers and other Calorie Counting Diets By Dr. Joel Fuhrman Weight Watchers and other similar diet plans have dismal failure rates. To appeal to the mainstream, which presently are eating a diet predominating in “fake” low-nutrient processed foods, they must perpetuate the same nutritional mistakes that lead people down the path […]

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